at NakedDate.com we've seen the good, the bad,
and the even the ugly
side, of dating... and now,
our resident therapist turned advice columnist ALEXA
here to answer all those important dating questions!
Is it true that alcohol could make someone interested in a person they
are normally not attracted to? Is there any truth to what they call
Alcohol often impairs people's ability to censor
themselves, leaving them more open to do or say things they may not
normally do. Alcohol increases sexual drive while decreasing
performance. It is this increased drive which may lead us to seek
partners we may not normally be interested in. My advice is to cut your
losses and head home alone. You'll thank me in the morning.
My boyfriend and I were watching the movie Austin Powers. In it he jokes
of a device called a penis enlarger. Does that really exist, and if so,
does it work?
The quest for the great phallus goes as far back as
the beginning of man. The penis enlarger joked about in the movie you
saw actually does work to seal off the penis causing blood to be
captured in a process called tumescence. At the end of the device, there
is a ring which acts as a tourniquet around the penis preventing blood
from escaping. Although this process yields the desired result, it is
very dangerous. A healthy erection occurs due to the blood flowing in
and out of the organ. Even with the use of prescribed medications such
as Viagra and other shots there is a danger in manipulating blood flow
to that region. An erection of longer than two hours can indicate a
Do you consider cyber sex cheating?
You might find it interesting that the most practiced
form of sexuality in the world is with oneself. In regards to cybersex
as cheating, I think this is a relationship specific decision. A chat
room can be a fun place to experiment with sex without risk of pregnancy
or disease. I say if you can't beat 'em join 'em. If your lover is
actively participating in cyber sex, why don't you play along so you
both can have safe fun.
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